No, I know, I know. But there's the whole heirarchy of mourners thing. If I was close family or whatever, I'd feel more empowered to laugh. As an old friend who hadn't seen him much lately, laughter can be hurtful to those who are still in shock and more actively pained. It's bad to look at it that way, but hard not to sometimes.
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Date: 2004-02-02 11:35 am (UTC)